Women’s Choice Group · Ontario
Love Starts with Me:
A structured in-person 6-week group for women working on self-worth, boundaries, and healthy relationships.
PROGRAM AT A GLANCE
6
WEEKLY SESSIONS
One per week
WHO IT’S FOR
90
MINUTES EACH
Structured & focused
100%
IN-PERSON
Secure location
A supportive space for women ready to reconnect with their self-worth and build healthier relationships.
Feeling like you’re always putting others first, but losing yourself in the process?
Struggling to set boundaries without guilt or fear of conflict?
Questioning your worth in relationships or repeating the same unhealthy patterns?
Healing from a relationship that left you feeling drained, unheard, or not enough?
Research shows that strengthening self-worth and boundaries is key to building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This group meets you where you are and helps you move forward with clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
Small
GROUP FORMAT
Depth & safety
Who Are We?
Women’s Group Counselling at The Therapeutic Way
Lilian is our relationship therapists with many years of experience supporting women of all ages, find love and respect within themselves and their relationships.
If you feel that you keep choosing the wrong person in relationships, this group is for you.
Facilitator:
Lilian Shonhiwa, Registered Psychotherapist, specializes in Relationship Issues, Attachment Wounds, and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery.
A 6 WEEK CURRICULUM
A roadmap, not just a conversation.
Each session builds on the last. Structured exercises, guided discussions, and between-session homework create durable change beyond the group.
01
Why Do I Keep Accepting Less Than I Deserve?
Naming the Pattern, Ending the Shame. You are not the problem, the pattern is. Let’s break that.
03
Self-Love Is Not a Bubble Bath: It’s Self-Respect
Building Identity Outside Relationships. What are your values, what do you want in a relationship, and how to stand true to what you want and not get sucked back into the old pattern?
05
Boundaries: The Line Where Self-Love Becomes Real
Saying “no” without losing control. Learn ways to set boundaries without feeling guilty.
02
Communication & Repair
Demand–withdraw cycles, speaker–listener skills, soft start-ups, and post-conflict reconnection routines. Start your relationship on the right track.
04
Red Flags Are Not Challenges to Overcome
Recognizing Unhealthy Treatment. Learn to trust your intuition and your gut. How many times have we over rode the gut feeling?
06
Choosing Peace Over Chaos
Integration and Future Relationship Standards. It can feel like we are addicted to toxic relationships. Learn the science behind it and practical skills to choosing more peace.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN
Real self-worth. Lasting change.
This isn’t just talking about your patterns, it’s learning how to actually break them. Each week includes guided reflection, practical tools, and take-home practices so what you learn becomes something you live.
In this 6-week online women’s group, you’ll learn how to recognize and shift unhealthy relationship patterns, understand your attachment style and emotional triggers, and rebuild your sense of self-worth from the inside out.
You’ll develop the skills to identify red flags without minimizing them, set clear and confident boundaries without guilt, and stop abandoning yourself to maintain connection.
By the end, you’ll have a stronger sense of identity, healthier relationship standards, and the tools to choose peace, stability, and self-respect moving forward.
🔍 Recognize unhealthy patterns and break the cycle
🧠 Understand your attachment style and emotional triggers
💔 Stop over-giving, chasing, or abandoning yourself in relationships
🚩 Identify red flags without minimizing or rationalizing
🛡️ Set clear, confident boundaries—without guilt
💬 Communicate your needs with clarity and self-respect
🌿 Rebuild your self-worth from within, not external validation
🧭 Create healthier relationship standards moving forward
What you get from us?
Worksheets that accompany each session.
At the end of each sessions, you will receive worksheets that will support what you have learned. These worksheets are for you to work through at your own pace to aid in your healing.
At times, your facilitator will give you small “homework” to ensure the group is aiding you in making a change.
Be part of a community.
Many of our participants - women, feel alone in their relationships or even lonely wondering if something is wrong with them. Being able to hear and learn from each has been very empowering for our couples. These groups have supported formations of many new friendships!
Expert help.
Our relationship therapist have led many workshops, group therapy, and webinars. We continuously are growing and keeping up with the latest research to help you.
Group Therapy Details
Next Start Date:
Duration/ Time:
Location: In-person - 980 Frasier Road, Unit 109
Participants:
Cost: $100 per 90 mins session. (No HST)
Certain insurance plans may cover for group/ couples therapy!
To Register:
Email us and let us know you are interested. We will contact you within 24-48 hours for an optional free consult call to ask you a few questions and for you to learn more about the group. You will then receive an agreement and consent form to fill out. Once it is signed and the first session is paid ($150), your spot is saved.
Registration is first come, first served. Your spot is saved once we receive the payment for the first session of $100. Unfortunately we do not “hold” a spot due to limited number of participants. Once we receive 8 participants, we will have a waitlist open for the next group.
Many workplace and extended health care plans offer coverage for group therapy services and we recommend that you check with your insurance provider to understand and verify what portion of our services will be covered by your plan. If not covered, you can claim it when filling out your next income tax.
Cancellation policy:
If cancellation is made one week before the first day of the group therapy, a full refund (via etransfer) will be given. After the cut-off date, your registration will be converted to a credit for a future workshop, group session, or therapy session within the following twelve months. In order to preserve group integrity and confidentiality, individual sessions cannot be sold separately.
FAQs
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This 6 week group therapy is $100 per 1.5 hour of session. No HST included.
To register a deposit of $100 is required to save your spot.
You will receive a confirmation email that we received your deposit and your spot is saved. On the day of the sessions, you will receive a receipt to submit for reimbursement if you plan to claim through insurance.
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This group is appropriate for:
· Women who feel stuck in unhealthy or repeating relationship patterns
· Those who struggle with boundaries, people-pleasing, or over-giving
· Women who feel anxious, insecure, or emotionally overwhelmed in relationships
· Individuals healing from emotionally harmful, inconsistent, or one-sided relationships
· Those rebuilding their self-worth after a breakup, betrayal, or loss of self
· Women wanting to better understand their attachment style and emotional triggers
· Anyone ready to develop healthier relationship standards and a stronger sense of self
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That’s ok. This is an open group and no commitment is required. You pay for the sessions you want to attend. Please note however, the sessions build on each other.
We run these groups multiple times a year. If you are not able to join now, you can be added to our email list for updates on new offerings. Thank you for your understanding on this.
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1. Purpose
Group Therapy: Focuses on therapeutic goals and offer emotional support and shared experiences among individuals dealing with similar challenges. It's designed to provide participants with tools and strategies to manage specific issues.
Support Groups: Aim is to only offer emotional support and shared experiences among individuals dealing with similar challenges. No therapeutic goals. The primary goal is mutual support and understanding rather than structured therapeutic outcomes.
2. Facilitation
Group Therapy: Led by a licensed mental health professional (e.g., therapist) trained to guide discussions, manage group dynamics, and apply evidence-based interventions.
Support Groups: Often facilitated by a peer or volunteer who has personal experience with the issue, though some may be led by professionals. The facilitator’s role is typically less directive.
3. Structure
Group Therapy: Has a structured format with specific goals, activities, and interventions. Sessions may follow a curriculum or treatment plan, and participation often requires a commitment to attend regularly for a set period.
Support Groups: Tend to be more flexible and open-ended. Members can join or leave as needed, and the focus is on sharing personal experiences and providing mutual encouragement.
4. Focus
Group Therapy: Centers on exploring underlying psychological issues and working towards behavioral or emotional change. Discussions are guided by therapeutic techniques and increasing empathy and mutual understanding of shared experiences.
Support Groups: Emphasize shared experiences and mutual understanding. Focus is more on empathy and solidarity than deep psychological exploration.
5. Confidentiality
Both prioritize confidentiality, but group therapy often has stricter confidentiality agreements due to the clinical nature of the discussions.